Lighting the Hanukkah Menorah
The most iconic Hanukkah custom is lighting the menorah, also called a hanukkiah. Each night of Hanukkah, an additional candle is lit until all eight candles shine brightly on the final evening.
Why It’s Special
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Candles are lit after sunset, creating a peaceful and reflective moment
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The central candle, the shamash, is used to light the others
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The menorah is traditionally placed near a window to publicly share the miracle
This ritual symbolizes hope, resilience, and the power of light over darkness—an especially meaningful message during the winter months.
Reciting Hanukkah Blessings and Songs
Before lighting the candles, special blessings (brachot) are recited, thanking God for the miracles performed for the Jewish people. On the first night, an additional blessing celebrates reaching this season again.
A Beautiful Tradition
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Creates a moment of gratitude and mindfulness
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Connects families to centuries-old practices
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Often followed by joyful songs like Ma’oz Tzur
Singing together after candle lighting transforms the ritual into a shared emotional experience, especially for children.
Eating Fried Foods in Oil
Hanukkah cuisine is delicious for a reason—it’s all about oil. Fried foods commemorate the miracle of the oil that lasted eight days.
Classic Hanukkah Treats
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Latkes (potato pancakes), especially popular in Ashkenazi households
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Sufganiyot, jelly-filled doughnuts beloved in Israel and around the world
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Modern variations include cheese latkes, sweet potato fritters, and gourmet doughnuts
These comfort foods add warmth and indulgence to the holiday, making Hanukkah as satisfying as it is meaningful.
Playing Dreidel
The dreidel is a four-sided spinning top marked with Hebrew letters. Playing dreidel is a fun Hanukkah game enjoyed by children and adults alike.
What the Letters Mean
Each letter represents a phrase meaning “A great miracle happened there” (or “here” in Israel).
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Nun
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Gimel
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Hey
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Shin
Traditionally played with coins, chocolate gelt, or small treats, dreidel games bring laughter, friendly competition, and timeless joy to Hanukkah gatherings.
Giving Hanukkah Gelt
Hanukkah gelt, or money, is traditionally given to children during the holiday. Today, it often comes in the form of chocolate coins wrapped in gold or silver foil.
The Meaning Behind Gelt
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Encourages generosity and charitable giving
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Historically linked to rewarding Torah study
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Adds excitement for children
Many families use gelt as a teaching moment, encouraging children to donate a portion to charity.
Giving and Receiving Gifts
While not originally a central part of Hanukkah, gift-giving has become a beloved modern custom, especially in families with children.
How Families Celebrate
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One small gift each night or a few meaningful presents
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Books, games, Judaica, or educational gifts are common
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Emphasis on thoughtfulness rather than extravagance
This tradition makes the holiday feel festive and joyful, especially during a season filled with celebrations.
Family Gatherings and Shared Meals
Hanukkah is a time for togetherness. Families and friends gather nightly to light candles, share meals, and enjoy each other’s company.
Why This Custom Matters
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Strengthens family bonds
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Encourages storytelling and passing down traditions
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Creates lasting holiday memories
In many homes, grandparents share stories of how Hanukkah was celebrated in earlier generations, keeping heritage alive.
Decorating the Home for Hanukkah
While more understated than some holidays, Hanukkah decorations add a festive touch to the home.
Common Decorations
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Decorative menorahs and candle holders
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Blue and white color themes
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Window displays showcasing the lit menorah
Decorating enhances the sense of celebration and helps children feel connected to the holiday.
Acts of Charity and Kindness
Hanukkah emphasizes not only joy but also giving to others. Many families use the holiday as a time to focus on tzedakah (charitable giving).
Ways This Custom Is Practiced
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Donating money or food to those in need
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Volunteering as a family
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Teaching children about compassion and responsibility
This tradition reflects the deeper values of Hanukkah—light, justice, and hope.
Celebrating Hanukkah in Israel and Around the World
Hanukkah customs may vary slightly depending on where they are celebrated, adding richness to the holiday.
Global Variations
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In Israel, public menorah lightings fill city squares
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Sufganiyot dominate bakeries during the season
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Diaspora communities blend local culture with traditional rituals
Despite regional differences, the heart of Hanukkah remains the same: light, faith, and perseverance.
